My Romantic Experience with a Male aPenpals Friend while Husband away on Business!

As planned my husband went on a ten-day business trip to France. In his absence, I invited a male friend I have known through an advert at aPenpals. He would arrive at my place the very day my husband has left for France.

It was agreed that Hamad (my friend's name) would stay at the small guest apartment a few yards from our main home and around 11.00 in the evening when my kids were asleep Hamad would leave his studio and make his way to my marital bedroom for the night. Before six in the morning, he will return to the guest's home for the day. That would be the same for the whole duration of his stay with me. I am not going to tell the story myself and asked hubby to do it as every night, he will be connected to our bedroom via Skype.

"When my wife and her aPenpals male friend first had sex, the effect it had on me was a disappointment. Instead of being fantastically excited, I was worried. They left me on Skype while taking advantage of the seclusion of our bedroom. I had always visualized coming spontaneously because of the excitement. Although I was excited to a degree, this was secondary to my feeling of concern for my wife. I wondered how he would treat her. Would he be gentle? Would he want to strip her and would she object to that? If she objected, would he insist? Would she be upset? Should I scream on Skype and stop them? Thoughts flooded through my mind time and time again

It seemed an age but when they came back in, it suddenly seemed to have gone quickly. I think it was about 55 minutes. I had always looked forward to seeing my wife with a male partner, particularly the first time, and particularly the first entry. However, when the occasion arose, I was too preoccupied with concern for my wife. I was in a cold nervous sweat and my stomach was tied in knots, sick with worry. I am sure this was prompted mainly by her previous reluctance, as we had made fairly certain that he was capable of responding to this delicate situation in a manner that would take a lot of my wife’s uneasiness away.

When they returned, I started to relax. We sat and had a coffee and talked not too comfortably for a short while. On our own, I still felt twisted up having her do something which was so against her normal behavior pattern and she was reassuring me now that it had been all right. This was no lustful sex, just tender kisses, and gentle words.

Later I found her feelings were rather neutral. She had felt uneasy till they had gone to the bedroom, but once the door was closed she felt committed and any last lingering indecisiveness ended then. Once he started to kiss and caress her, she felt able to respond without taking any initiative. She still felt a ‘one man woman’ while the preliminaries were progressing, but felt a psychological change the moment he actually entered her. From that moment, she told me, she accepted she had a new sexual partner.

There was no feeling of guilt or emotion of any kind about it, it was just so. He had been as considerate as we had anticipated and helped overcome any embarrassment by his gentle approach. In fact, she was the subject of inverse embarrassment. She found that she was embarrassed at appearing embarrassed and let him take all her clothes off though she would have preferred to leave at least some on – certainly, she showed far more permissiveness than either of us (my wife and myself) could possibly have anticipated."

Thus ended my husband's account of my first night with my aPenpals male friend.

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