You may not have had a father figure in your life. Or maybe you did but he was absent other than in name. Or maybe he was a bad father figure. Either way it doesn't mean you're weak to be a better father, husband, son and neighbor yourself. Doesn't mean you don't protect yourself and your family. It just means you are a better human being. Let go of the past and move forward. What is holding you back? Forgive - it's for you.. not for them - and pick up the pieces and mov…