- Username:
- joevymendoza
- Gender:
- Woman
- Age:
- 27
- Location:
- Candelaria, Southern Tagalog, Philippines
- Living situation:
- With parents
- Firstline:
- Meet Asian pen pals
- About yourself:
- Cooking and gardening
- Looking for:
-
Handsome man, tall man and very respect the woman.Very gentlemen and very workholic
Southern Tagalog Pen Pals - New Friends in Philippines
- Username:
- mherickdaep
- Gender:
- Man
- Age:
- 30
- Location:
- Taclobo, Southern Tagalog, Philippines
- Living situation:
- With parents
- Firstline:
- meet asian pen pals
- About yourself:
- playing basketball
- Looking for:
-
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- Username:
- Drey
- Gender:
- Woman
- Age:
- 32
- Location:
- Cavite, Southern Tagalog, Philippines
- Living situation:
- With parents
- Firstline:
- Meet asian
- About yourself:
- Simple And slim
- Looking for:
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Serious and funny
Enjoyed to talk too.
Not maniac
Matured enough
- Username:
- Mhaldita
- Gender:
- Woman
- Age:
- 38
- Location:
- Mataas na Kahoy, Southern Tagalog, Philippines
- Living situation:
- With kids
- Firstline:
- Friends online
- About yourself:
- Hello im frella im 34 years old im single mom i working for manufacturing campany my hobby is surfing in the internet.cooking,watch movie im from philippines
- Looking for:
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I looking for friends and i looking to love me and my kids
- Username:
- anubis9
- Gender:
- Man
- Age:
- 22
- Location:
- Batangas, Southern Tagalog, Philippines
- Living situation:
- With parents
- Firstline:
- i may not be the man of your dream but i can make your reality better
- About yourself:
- depends on how you want
- Looking for:
-
i am looking for friends and pleasure , somethings too
- Username:
- Eshababe
- Gender:
- Woman
- Age:
- 37
- Location:
- Antipolo, Southern Tagalog, Philippines
- Living situation:
- With parents
- Firstline:
- Im just new here
- About yourself:
- Im just a simple person down to earth
- Looking for:
-
Im looking for simple respectful person and serious to have a relationship and of course a happy man...
- Username:
- Jack1988
- Gender:
- Man
- Age:
- 29
- Location:
- Bacoor, Southern Tagalog, Philippines
- Living situation:
- Alone
- Firstline:
- Asian
- About yourself:
- Good and responsibility
- Looking for:
-
Chat and dating for know each other how to long relationship for know each other and need to know how good you are
- Username:
- ruelganubbaby
- Gender:
- Man
- Age:
- 41
- Location:
- Carmona, Southern Tagalog, Philippines
- Living situation:
- With parents
- Firstline:
- hsjwbagaujdbdhdjekkdjd
- About yourself:
- funny,simple,caring
- Looking for:
-
girl with a good heart and beautiful who accept me
- Username:
- jimcarl03
- Gender:
- Woman
- Age:
- 52
- Location:
- Batangas, Southern Tagalog, Philippines
- Living situation:
- With kids
- Firstline:
- None
- About yourself:
- Friendly, sweet and loving person..like watching drama movies and interested in seeing nice views
- Looking for:
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A good friend, responsible, loving and matured person
- Username:
- Kenzo12
- Gender:
- Man
- Age:
- 40
- Location:
- Los Baños, Southern Tagalog, Philippines
- Living situation:
- Alone
- Firstline:
- Asian pen pals
- About yourself:
- Volunteering, community service, hiking, drawing ,Cooking or gardening
- Looking for:
-
true love and be my wife in the future.
1. Emotional Maturity
Every person comes equipped with flaws and emotional baggage. Seeking perfection is an idle search. Instead, what you should look for in a partner is emotional maturity. This means someone who is willing to think and learn about themselves, who is open to reflecting on the past and evolving in the present. This certain someone should be non-reactive, in the sense that they think before they act. They don’t let their instant emotions rule their actions. They are independent and self-assured, which means they aren’t looking to you to fix or complete them.
2. Openness
Along with emotional maturity, one of the things to look for in a partner is an openness to feedback. Not only should your partner be interested in changing his or her own self-limiting behaviors, but he or she should be open to hearing what you have to say. Open and honest communication is vital to sustaining a close relationship. When a person puts up a wall that says, “I am unwilling to listen and unwilling to change,” there is really little room for growth on both your parts. When a couple is willing to openly communicate about themselves and their feelings and reactions to each other, they avoid building a case and creating tensions that later tear them apart. By being resilient and hearing each other out, they construct a solid foundation for a workable relationship that is sure to evolve over time.
3. Honesty
While deception is generally frowned upon, lying is sadly common in many relationships. Some couples believe they need lies to survive, yet research shows that lying less is linked to better relationships. Being able to trust is so important when choosing a life partner. Look for someone whose actions meet their words and someone who is open about how they feel. It’s better to be with someone who will tell you what’s on their mind, even revealing that they’re attracted to someone else, than to make those topics taboo or off limits, which can create an air of secrecy. Even when the truth is hard to take, it’s in your best interest to really know your partner. Someone who hides aspects of themselves can leave you feeling insecure and mistrusting.
4. Respectful and Sensitive
One of the most valuable qualities to look for in a partner is respect. When you find someone who encourages you to be yourself, you can feel secure in your relationship, yet independent within yourself. It’s easy to feel loved when someone encourages you to do what lights you up and makes you happy. This same person may be willing to challenge you when you’re engaging in self-destructive attitudes and behaviors. This attuned way of relating is both sensitive and respectful of who you are as an individual, separate from your partner. When someone appreciates you and takes an interest in the things you are passionate about, you can really share life with this person, while continuing to pursue your unique interests.
5. Independent
People often make the mistake of thinking that a relationship is a way for two people to become one. Attempting to merge your identity with someone else is not only bad for you, but bad for the relationship. When couples fall into routine and forego their independent attraction to each other, things tend to go south. Real relating is replaced with an illusion of connection or “fantasy bond.” This sense of fusion subdues the passion in a relationship. By maintaining your individuality: enjoying separate interests along with interests you share with your partner, keeping your outside friendships and always trying new things, you keep romance and attraction alive.
6. Empathetic
In addition to being a good communicator, you should look for a partner who is empathetic. It’s fortunate to find someone who is willing to hear out and relate to your struggles. When you have a partner who aims to understand and feel for what you experience, you are able to be more vulnerable and reveal more aspects of yourself. Compassion is one of the most important human traits, and you should strive to find a partner who can easily feel for other people.
7. Physically Affectionate
One of the symptoms of a “fantasy bond” involves a lack of affection and sexuality between a couple. Physical affection is an important part of life. It is a way people stay connected and close to those they love. Keeping your relationship vital and intimate is part of making love last. It’s important to choose a partner who accepts love and affection, who is also giving of love, affection and acknowledgment. Your sexuality is a part of you that shouldn’t fade with time. Keeping your feelings alive means expressing them verbally and physically.
- Username:
- Bhenglicup
- Gender:
- Woman
- Age:
- 45
- Location:
- Santa Rosa, Southern Tagalog, Philippines
- Living situation:
- With kids
- Firstline:
- Never give up..
- About yourself:
- Single mom of 4 kids
- Looking for:
-
I am looking for a life partner who is always by my side and will help me face all the trials in life
- Username:
- Roma
- Gender:
- Woman
- Age:
- 26
- Location:
- Taytay, Southern Tagalog, Philippines
- Living situation:
- With parents
- Firstline:
- Asian
- About yourself:
- Im honest dont like lier if ur interested please dont play me
- Looking for:
-
To be honest i love someone who love me and dont hide the secret cuz soon i will find out
- Username:
- Vhanj
- Gender:
- Woman
- Age:
- 44
- Location:
- Dasmariñas, Southern Tagalog, Philippines
- Living situation:
- With kids
- Firstline:
- Meet asian
- About yourself:
- Simple,friendly,sense of humor
- Looking for:
-
A friend with sense of humor,understanding,kind,gentlemen,funny etc.
- Username:
- Jhane123
- Gender:
- Woman
- Age:
- 35
- Location:
- Bacoor, Southern Tagalog, Philippines
- Living situation:
- Alone
- Firstline:
- Western
- About yourself:
- Friendly, and God fearing
- Looking for:
-
A guy who will love me for the rest of my life , A guy who is passionate in his feelings. A guy who is lovable and friendly , easy to get along , and Most especially a guy who is God fearing who knows and loves God.
- Username:
- Jhepoynueva
- Gender:
- Man
- Age:
- 26
- Location:
- Alaminos, Southern Tagalog, Philippines
- Living situation:
- With parents
- Firstline:
- All pilipino
- About yourself:
- Hobby basketball location alaminos laguna
- Looking for:
-
Looking for girlfriend for long time relationship of all life